Meltdown vs. Shutdown
Two autistic crisis responses to overwhelm. Meltdown: external explosion (fight/flight). Shutdown: internal collapse (freeze). Both involuntary.
Meltdown is an external explosion when overwhelm exceeds capacity. Crying, screaming, thrashing, breaking things, aggression. It looks like a loss of control because it IS—the nervous system is in fight-or-flight and rational brain is offline.
Shutdown is an internal collapse when overwhelm exceeds capacity. Non-verbal, can't move, can't process, need to escape and hide. It looks like depression or dissociation but it's freeze response—the nervous system protecting itself by powering down.
Both are involuntary. Both are responses to sensory, emotional, or cognitive overload. Both are NOT tantrums, manipulation, or "bad behavior."